Using a penpals dating site such as Pen Pals (see the profiles finder on the right of this page) has a lot of advantages over a tradional dating site.
After the initial whale GIF, Mike says he'll always move the conversation forward with a unique message, asking his match something about their profile, their bio, and their pictures.
He'll then use the information he has about them to start a conversation.
Like most guys, he started off pretty clueless, with just one or two photos and no bio.
But a year and a half later, he's among the most right-swiped men in New York City, according to the app's internal data..
You can join Pen Pals as a Standard Member completely for free — this is really easy too.