) If yes, are you looking for a monogamous romantic relationship?(Spend some time asking yourself this question as well.) See how you don’t know the answers to these questions just because you know the person you like identifies as asexual? I bet as you’ve been getting to know this person, you’ve found lots of specific things to like about her and the relationship you’re creating with her. Maybe she pushes you to go on more and better adventures.
Does your sexuality label convey everything about what you want out of a relationship, what you like, and what compromises you’re willing to make? You can’t assume that you know everything about what she wants, likes, and is willing to compromise on just because you know how she labels her sexuality either. You need to consider how important sex is to you in this particular relationship.
If you can’t see yourself continuing to enjoy the company of this person you like without having sex with her, then you should probably do both of you a favor and break it off.
After that i swore to never have any relationship again , and i was alone for a year.
I met my husband several years ago hile i was still with somebody else . We saw each other at some parties but only ever talked. I know it may sound stupid what i am trying to tell you, but its my experience.
Think about the sexuality label you use for yourself and how it affects or doesn’t affect your relationships with the people in your life who you care about. But I have another question for you: at any point during your conversation about her asexuality did you ask her what she wants from her relationship with you?