Other paid sites, like EHarmony.com, and Chemistry.com, ask you to take a personality test before they look for “matches” for you.
There are also faith-based sites like Christian and where members can write and respond to anyone.
He may say “my wife and I…” and that’s totally fine.
There should be no expectations when meeting new people. You can join groups for everything you can possibly imagine including hiking, art, photography, travel or dining out.
Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).