They’ve already tried dating on other Asian or Chinese sites, but discovered too late they were on one of the many dating scam sites.
Sites like Asian Date.com, AForeign (Love Me.com), Chnlove.com, Gagamatch.com, and countless others that post many fake women members, send out countless fake messages and chat invitations by these fake members, and charge excessive fees to read each message, to reply to each message, for each moment chatting with a paid employee or agent, and multiply the charges by forcing the member to pay for translation for all the fakery.
Your new lady will fit right in with your family and friends and your home country.
These women actually appreciate Western Men (unlike most Western Women) because they appreciate that we treat them with politeness and respect.
Most men who come to any Chinese dating site are coming out of a couple, or more, bad relationships with women in their own country.
After a bad divorce or two, and after endlessly being told in the media how horrible men are and how privileged women are, they start looking into other cultures where the ladies have not succumbed to an attitude of entitlement.
Chinese girls are caring, polite and usually very gentle and charming.