Have you ever been assertive with a guy and had him reciprocate your interest?
The reason why is because this is the MALE role not the female.
To win, you need to show some self-restraint and understand that he may not consider messaging you as important as you do.
Rather match his interest, and hold back from texting him!
If you are the one chasing him over text or in person he sits back and lets you do all the work, then he does his best to sleep with you and disappears shortly after.
Don’t do this, don’t chase him over text or any other medium.
In my book Text Appeal, I will teach you a few strategies to encourage him to chase you, it really isn’t that hard since men will naturally do this if you encourage it in the right way.